What is the key to success?

Success? It is what what you are being as opposed to an external achievement. We usually think of success as the accomplishment of a goal or achieving an ambition. The external success is an effect. The real success is the cause, and that cause is who you are being. All external success is the result of that cause. The KEY to your success is you first being the success you want to experience.How do you do that? Simply see in your mind and feel you have ALREADY achieved the success you want and behave as though you have. Here is an example. There was a team of young teenage ice skaters who had been training and competing for several years and were being coached by a very competent coach. The team was  technically excellent yet year after year they failed to achieve a medal. I was asked if I could help. We met for two hours and I had the team members tell each other about the beauty they saw in one another.I wanted them to know and feel their own beauty. Using brightly coloured plastic shapes they together made a picture of the collective beauty they wished to express on ice when they next competed. For a few minutes they looked at their picture holding it in their minds and seeing and feeling themselves expressing that together. A few weeks later at the next world competition they received a silver medal. Their "success" was expressing their collective beauty on ice. By doing that so well they received their medal.  The medal was an effect.. Them expressing their beauty was the cause. The key was not focusing on "winning a medal". They had been doing that before and all that did was to increase their stress and decrease their performance. The key was them expressing their best on ice..... the result was the medal. Remember, you are already a success..

Your question "How to find your mission...the meaning why we exist?"

Your No.1 mission is to be fully you expressing your fullest potential and living life fully.  You are your mission and fully experiencing your life is your mission. You have nothing to prove. You are great the way you are.

You may chose any purpose you wish. All are ok. Some will enable you to feel great and others will cause you to feel bad. Some you will feel more alive about, others less alive.

Choose those purposes that enable you to fully express your capabilities in a way that enables you to feel great and fully alive. And your purposes may change.

That's OK too.

Your question "Do you need to have gifts in order to find love/motivation?"

We all have unique gifts and combinations of gifts. Our gifts allow us to create our unique value. It is creating our unique value that gives us the most joy. Charles loved sport. Because he loved it he became good at it.

Even when he was too old to be good at it he enjoyed assisting others to
express themselves through sport.

Keys:

• enjoy being yourself. You are totally great just the way you are. 
  That is your no. 1 mission. If you don't enjoy being you, nothing else will do it for you.
• when you know yourself, you will know what you do that gives you the most satisfaction. i.e. feeling fully alive
• focus on doing what enables you to feel and be at your best... and growing.

Don't find any question but I for one cannot accomplish the things I want to do. This is not a question but maybe you have some answers to it.

Be happy, enjoy what you have or or are accomplishing. There will be always things you will not accomplish.

There has to be balance in everything but when your heart and mind are talking different things what happens?

Your energy is weakened. You are split. You are not being true to yourself. You are out of your power.